Owning a bed and breakfast isn't always fun and games - in fact, sometimes it is just down-right disgusting!

There - I said it!  And, although they may not admit it, there isn't a bed and breakfast owner out there that would disagree with me!

A while ago there was a on-line forum discussion on pet peeves of b and b owners, and it was interesting to see how similar everyone's gripes were about their guests.  Most complaints fell into one of two categories:  cleaning up after guests and dealing with inconsiderate guests.
Under the disgustingly dirty category, common examples were:bed and breakfast owner

    Hair - hair in the sinks, drains, tubs and showers; on the floors, in the bedding and everywhere else imagineable!

    Garbage - believe it or not, not everyone will bother putting their garbage in a waste basket - dirty tissues and leftover food and drink are a prime example!  Some guests will put recycling and regular garbage in the same container; panty liners and other sanitary products are just pitched in;  I have even found needles and broken glass.

    Toilets/bidets - clogged, not flushed, or used inappropriately (not all  cultures are use to the fixtures seen in most North American/European bathrooms)

    Bad smells - such as very dirty sports clothes, cigarette smoke (on clothes or from people who disregard no smoking signs, or smoke directly outside of the room right by the open window/door); heavy perfumes such as patchouli or musk and personal care products that use aerosol sprays.  (These smells permeate the soft furnishings of a room and if not dealt with immediately can be very difficult to remove.)

    Dirty shoes & luggage - very few people take their shoes off; most luggage is dragged along the ground and then placed on the bed, sofa or dresser tops - even when there are luggage racks available

    Spills & wet towels - left on bedding, rugs, furniture, towels and tablecloths

    Make-up and hair dyes - on pillowcases, facecloths, towels, and sheets

Under the incredibly inconsiderate area, common complaints are:

    People who call late in the night to make a reservation or want a room

    People who spend (what seems like) hours on the phone asking for details and then don't book, rather than reading your web site

    People who argue with you about your price, or expect a discount because they are a senior, belong to AAA, they are on a fixed income, etc

    Guests who ask for a special check-in time and then don't show up or call until much later...or show up even earlier!

    Guests who arrive early and if you won't let them check in, still expect to be able to use a bathroom

    People who want breakfast at a special time and then decide to sleep in

    Guests who insist they need special foods (whether they have booked in advance or walked in off the street) and then decide they want what everyone else is having

    Guests who bring other people into the bed and breakfast - i.e. booked a room for two and want four people to share the room

    Guests who wake you up in the middle of the night because they want a cup of tea, need a bandaid or forgot to ask you for something earlier in the day

    Guests who want to pay cash so they can avoid the taxes at check-out

    People who go back to bed/out for a walk and are late checking out

So - are bed and breakfast guests really that bad?

It depends on your attitude, and how tired you are at the time; and how prepared you are to deal with the situation.

As for the cleaning issues, if you've had kids, here's a good analogy: think about when your child was a baby and had a REALLY messy diaper.  It was pretty bad to clean up, but hey, that's what you did as a parent.  Now - think about a time when you had to change someone else's kid with a diaper like that.  You more than likely handled your own kid's diaper with a lot less trepidation, gagging and disugst than you did when it was someone else's kid!

When you apply that analogy to cleaning up after a bed and breakfast guest, it gives you a better understanding of why it can get so disgusting - especially when you do it day in and day out (90% of my guests stay 2 nights or less).

As for people being so self-centred, consider the fact that many people don't understand, or confuse the concept of a bed and breakfast being your home with that of a hotel with a 24-hour reception desk.  In addition, they have no concept of all the hard work that goes on behind the scenes to make their stay so enjoyable, so how can you expect them to know how their actions are going to impact on you?

So, what scares you the most about owning a bed and breakfast?  I would love to know what keeps you up at night worried about making the move to owning a bed and breakfast?  Leave a comment or contact me directly to see if I can help you get over that fear!
 


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innkeeperVA@gmail.com
02/28/2013 4:55pm

Sneaking in dogs under the cover of darkness, then locking them in the bathroom to howl and scratch up the door and walls while you have a casual breakfast... yeah happened 3 weeks ago here.

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Lesley
02/28/2013 4:57pm

Wow, that makes owning a B&B sound frightful. Yes, those things can happen. But the number of times they do happen is definitely a minority. I was very pleasantly surprised to find that the people booking at B&B's are a different calibre of person to those using hotels and by and large are very decent and I'm amazed at how few people are unpleasant. I must add, though, that I don't do the cleaning myself, so perhaps that is why I find most guests okay. I have certainly got grumpy sometimes, but honestly, in 7 years it has happened relatively seldom.

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Diane Shiery
02/28/2013 4:59pm

When the guests start bothering me I take a few days off. For those that do not have staff or a partner to take over for you listen to this one. I know an innkeeper that schedules a few days every few weeks where she takes no guests. I am envious!

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Lesley
02/28/2013 5:00pm

@Susan - we are very spoilt by living in a country where it is affordable to employ staff. Even so, the few times I've had to do a room myself I've often been impressed by how tidy people are and how many people make the bed themselves before leaving. You are right doing it day in and day out is difficult and I don't think I'd have a B&B if I had to do the work myself.

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Pamela
02/28/2013 5:01pm

we are just starting out and I'm doing all the work myself and it's not easy. I have been amazed at how nice and careful all most all of our guests have been. We did have one group of young adults that kept us up late drinking in the living room. That's how you figure out that you need house rules!

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Maria Rekrut
02/28/2013 5:02pm

Hi Susan,

I have owned my own vacation rental for 12 years, and haven't had any horror stories. I find the vacation rental business very easy to run and I don't have to prepare Breakfast!! What a novel idea.

I am a serial entrepreneur which means I own a number of businesses while I run my vacation rental business.

I do all of the work myself. How do I do it? I have systems in place that I have fine tuned over the past 12 years.

I look forward to reading your Blog.

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Gord Elliot
02/28/2013 5:04pm

I couldn't help laughing at some of the issues you describe as over the past 11 years we have experienced all those and some that were more extreme.
We had a young person attending a wedding in town who imbibed a bit too much and in the morning was a bit sheepish at the breakfast table. After this person left we discovered that the sheets had been soiled and not with vomit! On another occasion, a young "lady" came in without booking. Alarm bells went off when she asked for a rate of $60.00 and told us she only needed the room for a couple of hours. We marched her right back out into the rain! Another time a couple checked in, then proceeded to make very noisy whoopie in their room with the door open. Our other guests looked at us as if it must have been some kind of joke. There have been many other incidents ranging from hilarious to shocking, but the very worst involved a senior lady who was traveling around the region with her son and grandson (in separate rooms). She commented that this was a lovely old home when she arrived. The three of them went off for dinner in town, came back late and headed straight for bed. The next morning we were preparing breakfast when her son came rushing down the stairs and frantically announced that his mother was dead! Apparently she had decided not to go back to the nursing home and had brought pills and alcohol to ensure that she wouldn't! We had to call the police and wait for the coroner. After they left we asked the reverend next door to come in and bless the room before my wife would set foot in it! Breakfast was not touched that morning and we had to immediately replace the mattress.
For every negative incident though, there have been a hundred visits from really wonderful people who collectively make all the work and frustration worthwhile. We too have found that guests who prefer B&B to other accommodation are generally a better class of people and we really have no serious regrets.

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Ian Pearson
02/28/2013 5:05pm

Re annoyances: Guest asks for vegetarian breakfast last night. We cook Glamorgan sausages, tomatoes, mushrooms, hash browns, home-made pumpkin, courgette (zucchini)and cheese muffins and eggs from our own hens. Guest decides she'll just have toast *?!%£*. Somerset, UK
Posted @ Saturday, November 10, 2012 3:15 AM

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Lesley
02/28/2013 5:06pm

We used to part-own a small game farm in Zululand which was run by my sister and her husband. They had someone commit suicide in one of the cabins. The boyfriend came rushing through saying his girlfriend had shot herself and by the time my sister got there, she was still alive. Thankfully I didn't have to deal with that! And we also had one of the staff deliver a baby on the front lawn of the lodge. Hilarious stuff - I need to write a book.
Posted @ Sunday, November 11, 2012 2:03 AM

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